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Can I Count, One by One, What I Received from Family to Become Who I Am?
Is a person's character and disposition toward life simply the sum of what was inherited, one family member at a time?
From my grandfather Verus: a gentle disposition and a temper never given to anger.
This practice of cataloguing gratitude toward those who shaped oneself formed a distinctive strand of Stoic discipline. Epictetus placed the training of distinguishing what is and is not in our control above gratitude itself; Seneca systematized gratitude as a philosophical duty in his separate treatise On Benefits. Marcus joined the two, practicing gratitude not as an abstract virtue but as memory attached to concrete names and faces. This divide — whether gratitude is a principle or a practice — is also the distant root of today's habit of keeping a gratitude journal.
In an age that urges us to fill lists of achievement, this emperor's habit of first counting what was received feels all the stranger — and all the more needed.
Marcus, an emperor, devoted the entire first book of his Meditations to naming, one by one, what he received from his grandfather, his father, his mother, and his teachers — gentleness from his grandfather, self-restraint from his father, s…
📝I, Too, Stand Before It
Marcus, an emperor, devoted the entire first book of his Meditations to naming, one by one, what he received from his grandfather, his father, his mother, and his teachers — gentleness from his grandfather, self-restraint from his father, simplicity from his mother. I read this list as a humility that credits those who made him, rather than boasting of his own achievement. I too am a gathering of pieces received from someone. I ask myself whether I have ever counted, this precisely, what I received from my own family.
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