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DAY 240

Binding the Grass to Repay Kindness — Between Roots and the Care That Came

answered by Chengyu; a tale from the Zuo Zhuan
기원전 편찬(춘추 좌씨 전승)
🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS
Kikujiro (1999)
dir. Takeshi Kitano · Japan
A boy who sets out to find a mother he has never seen and a gruff middle-aged man who reluctantly becomes his companion drift together through a summer. Whether a child who has learned that the roots he longed for did not want him can, instead of being caught in resentment, recognize the clumsy tenderness handed to him on the road — it asks what he will see between the bond of birth and the bond of care.
THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

Busy resenting the roots I believe did not want me, do I fail to see the other kindnesses handed to me in unexpected places?

THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER · ORIGINAL
結草報恩
📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

To bind the grass to repay a kindness received — a gratitude not forgotten even in death.

💡 TL;DR

The saying "bind the grass to repay kindness" comes from an old tale of repaying a debt of gratitude even in death.

📝The Classic Answers

The saying "bind the grass to repay kindness" comes from an old tale of repaying a debt of gratitude even in death. One raised feeling unwanted easily resents their roots, and that resentment has its reasons. Yet dwelling only in it, one cannot see the tenderness handed over in an unexpected place — a kindness given without any name put forward. Beside a child who has learned that the roots he longed for did not want him, one gruff man who will not in the end let go of his hand walks along. Not only the bond of birth is kindness; the heart handed over on the road is a kindness to be repaid too. Rather than being caught by the roots that wounded me, I choose to recognize first the kindness received beside me now, and to keep it in my heart.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

Among those who have kept you walking until now, recall one tenderness handed over without a name, and engrave your thanks for it, even if only in your heart.

📖 Classic Source: Chengyu; a tale from the Zuo Zhuan. Ancient text in the public domain; rendered and interpreted independently by ONGO.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.

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