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DAY 27

The Highest Good Is Like Water

answered by Tao Te Ching, ch. 8
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🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS
The Painted Veil (2006)
dir. John Curran · USA
Two people estranged are thrown together into strange hardship. Will they cling to their resentment to the end, or set down that hardness and see each other anew? Is it possible to turn contempt into love?
THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

Can a bond begun in resentment grow into real love by crossing hardship together?

📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

💡 TL;DR

Laozi said, "The highest good is like water; water benefits all things yet does not contend." Resentment stands rigid and opposed, but a heart softened like water seeps and flows even into the other's low places.

📝The Classic Answers

Laozi said, "The highest good is like water; water benefits all things yet does not contend." Resentment stands rigid and opposed, but a heart softened like water seeps and flows even into the other's low places. The power that overcomes hatred is not a stronger stubbornness but a yielding that lowers itself and flows. I choose to set down the wish to win against the other. When two soak into each other like water while crossing hardship, even resentment grows into love.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

If a clash has hardened your heart toward someone, rather than try to win, lower yourself a step first and approach like water.

📖 Classic Source: Tao Te Ching, ch. 8.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.

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