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Can I Look at Myself as a Stranger Would?
Can I raise within myself an impartial spectator who watches me?
The impartial spectator within the breast.
Adam Smith held that when we judge our own conduct, we raise within us an "impartial spectator" and see ourselves through his eyes — an inner judge who steps back and evaluates us as a stranger might. Thanks to this spectator, we can see ourselves objectively, unblinded by self-interest. The question joins a long lineage. The Stoic Seneca already advised living "as if someone you respect were always watching," and the Confucian shendu was the same training of raising an inner eye. Later psychology redrew this inner observer under other names. Can I see myself as another would — the insight that this capacity is the start of morality carries across the ages.
The easier self-justification becomes, the more we need that impartial spectator who sees us with a stranger's eye.
My problem is that I side with myself too much.
📝I, Too, Stand Before It
My problem is that I side with myself too much. The same fault looks large when another commits it and excusable when I do. Smith's impartial spectator is the eye that strips away that favoritism. "If a stranger saw this scene now, what would they say?" This single shift of gaze makes me a little more honest. I cannot yet keep that spectator always beside me, but in each moment I grow too lenient with myself, I mean to summon that stranger's eye. Before the practice of seeing myself as another, I too am standing.
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