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DAY 195

As a Mother Shields Her Only Child

answered by Mencius, "Li Lou" (Li Lou), Part I
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🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS
Life Is Beautiful (1997)
dir. Roberto Benigni · Italy
A father, in the most brutal of circumstances, dresses that hell up as a kind of game so his small son will not be swallowed by fear. Is that deceiving reality, or guarding a child's soul? How far may love conceal the truth?
THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

To protect the one I love, can I hide even my own fear behind a smile?

THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER · ORIGINAL
事親爲大
事孰爲大 事親爲大
📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

Of all serving, which is greatest? To serve one's parent is greatest. And that same love flows on into the guarding of one's child.

💡 TL;DR

Mencius ranked the serving of a parent highest among all human service, and that deep-rooted love flows naturally into the strength that guards a child.

📝The Classic Answers

Mencius ranked the serving of a parent highest among all human service, and that deep-rooted love flows naturally into the strength that guards a child. Only on becoming a parent do I begin to guess how much fear my own parents hid for my sake. Love sometimes protects by not showing the whole truth. To smile before a child even in despair is not a lie but a devotion that refuses to let the child's world collapse. Before the one I must protect, I choose to show a little less of my own weight. That is one face of love.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

Before someone you must protect today, set down your own anxiety for a moment and first reassure their world.

📖 Classic Source: Mencius, "Li Lou" (Li Lou), Part I. Ancient text in the public domain; rendered and interpreted independently by ONGO.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.

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