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How Does Reverence for My Own Parents Widen into Respect for Every Elder in the World?
Can the heart that governs a single household well truly become the beginning of a heart that governs a whole nation well?
Honor my own elders as elders, and let that reach the elders of others; cherish my own children as children, and let that reach the children of others.
Mencius's logic — widening near love into a principle of governance — became central to Confucian political philosophy. Xunzi supplemented it with the institution of ritual, arguing that the extension of feeling alone was insufficient and needed rank and norm alongside it. The Legalist Han Feizi, by contrast, distrusted governance leaning on feeling altogether, offering the opposite answer: rule the state not by extending love but by law, reward, and punishment. This old divide — is governance the extension of love, or the execution of law — runs through the whole of East Asian political thought.
In an age when elder care has become a whole society's task, this question — whether the heart held for one's own parents can reach a neighbor's elders too — remains as practical as ever.
Mencius told the king that the secret of governance lies in widening love already possessed: reach with the reverence you hold for your own parents to other people's parents, and with the care you hold for your own children to other people'…
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Mencius told the king that the secret of governance lies in widening love already possessed: reach with the reverence you hold for your own parents to other people's parents, and with the care you hold for your own children to other people's children, and the realm can be governed well. I know this is not idealism but a concrete order of practice — not straining first to love strangers, but gradually widening the love you already carry. I too gauge how far the love I feel for my own parents has actually spread toward others.
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