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DAY 243

The Same Rain Falls, yet Each Grows Differently

answered by The Book of Rites, "Yue Ji" (Record of Music)
기원전 편찬(유가 예법 모음)
🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS
The Joy Luck Club (1993)
dir. Wayne Wang · USA
Immigrant mothers and their daughters fall out of tune across different languages and generations. The mother's love sounds to the daughter like oppression, and the daughter's life is only strange to the mother. Yet reconciliation begins when the daughter learns of the wound the mother swallowed so as not to pass it down. How does one recognize the same heart flowing beneath the ravine of generations?
THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

Pushing away the mother generation's love as an outdated manner, do I discard the heart within it as well?

THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER · ORIGINAL
樂者 天地之和也
📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

Music is the harmony of heaven and earth — different sounds joining into one accord.

💡 TL;DR

The Book of Rites called music the accord of different sounds.

📝The Classic Answers

The Book of Rites called music the accord of different sounds. Mother and daughter live in different eras, languages, and wounds, and so often fall out of tune. The mother's way of offering love sounds to the daughter like meddling or pressure, and the daughter's life is an incomprehensible strangeness to the mother. As the same rain makes each plant grow differently, the same love is expressed in a different shape by each generation. I easily miss the heart within an unfamiliar expression and blame only the manner. Yet behind a mother's clumsy interference usually lie a love never fully conveyed and a wound she does not wish to pass down. Beyond the difference in expression, I try to hear the same heart flowing beneath.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

Take one old or clumsy expression of family affection, and hear it again not by its manner but by the heart beneath it.

📖 Classic Source: The Book of Rites, "Yue Ji" (Record of Music). Ancient text in the public domain; rendered and interpreted independently by ONGO.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.

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