The Function of Ritual Values Harmony

answered by Confucius, "Analects", Xue Er

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🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS

Fiddler on the Roof (1971)

dir. Norman Jewison · USA

A father who has long upheld tradition watches his daughters, one by one, step outside the arranged frame of marriage to choose love instead. Between his devotion to tradition and his love for his children, he bends himself little by little.

THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

Between the discipline called tradition and a child's free choice, how far can a parent let go?

THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER · ORIGINAL

禮之用，和為貴。

📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

In the function of ritual propriety, harmony is what is valued.

💡 TL;DR

Confucius said that the true function of ritual propriety lies in harmony.

📝The Classic Answers

Confucius said that the true function of ritual propriety lies in harmony. Tradition exists not as a form to be preserved for its own sake, but to connect person to person. Each time one of his daughters steps outside the fixed frame of arranged marriage, the father suffers, seeing it as a betrayal that tears tradition apart. But what he ultimately learns is that if tradition exists for the sake of harmony, tradition itself can bend toward preserving that harmony. Whenever a tradition I must uphold collides with the choice of someone I love, I first trace back what that tradition was originally meant to serve.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

If a tradition you must uphold collides with a loved one's different choice today, ask whether that tradition was ever meant to protect the form, or the harmony.

📖 Classic Source: Confucius, "Analects", Xue Er. Ancient text in the public domain; rendered and interpreted independently by ONGO.
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