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DAY 75

Repay Grievance With Virtue

answered by Laozi, Dao De Jing, ch. 63
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🎬 TODAY'S FILM — IT ASKS THIS
Gran Torino (2008)
dir. Clint Eastwood · USA
When a lifetime of hatred and prejudice is faced late in life, a person may carry it onward unchanged, or make a different choice at the end. When one chooses to pay a different price instead of repaying violence with violence, what does that choice cut off, and what does it leave behind?
THE QUESTION THE FILM ASKS

By returning the hatred I received, am I in fact extending the very chain of that hatred?

THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER · ORIGINAL
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📜 THE CLASSIC'S ANSWER

Repay grievance with virtue.

💡 TL;DR

Laozi's four characters cut the arithmetic of revenge.

📝The Classic Answers

Laozi's four characters cut the arithmetic of revenge. Repay hatred with hatred and the scale seems briefly balanced, but the chain only grows one link longer. To repay grievance with virtue is less for the other's sake than to sever that chain from oneself. To choose, late in life, to pay a different price is not weakness but the strength to stop the inheritance. I choose to stay the hand that returns like for like, and to cut the chain here.

— ONGO · Curator

🌱Apply It Today

If there is a hatred you want to repay today, instead of repaying it, imagine one different price that cuts the chain.

📖 Classic Source: Laozi, Dao De Jing, ch. 63. Ancient text in the public domain; rendered and interpreted independently by ONGO.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.

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